Why do we have to fall for the wrong person? Why
do we have to experience loving the person who cannot or rather, who will not
love us back? Why do one-sided love
affairs need to happen? Why do we have to be hurt just because we fell for
these guys who cannot appreciate and see our worth? Love is never been so damn
easy. They said everything happens for a reason, but I don’t know if I still
want to believe on this one. What are the reasons for these things to happen?
Is it because these experiences will teach us lessons? Yeah, we learn something
from them, but what a great lesson, right? Doubting yourself and gradually
losing yourself while loving someone who continuously hurting you.
When I was a kid, I always believe that love is
like in fairy tales which will let you think of destiny, happy endings, true
love, and happiness, but when I started to feel the pain that it caused me, I
realized that it wasn't. Love is not like a fairytale at all. It is not also
like a romance movie that even if they get through a lot of problems and roller
coaster feelings, in the end it will always be you and him being together,
exchanging kisses and ‘I love yous’, but it’s totally not like that. Love is
just an idea, a dream, a dream of being with someone who loves you and will do
anything to make you happy, an idea of being with your faithful partner who
wants to spend the rest of his life with you. That’s love. It’s an idea. It’s
just a dream that not all people can have even if you do everything for that
one person you love so much. You’re lucky if you’re experiencing it. I guess my
luck is not as good as yours.
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